Wow, you feel like you are going crazy right? The person who you love and has sworn he loves you more than anything on earth, is hurting you again. And to top it off he is making it seem like it is your fault. You are so frustrated you turn angry and end up looking like the crazy one. You are not alone this blog is the story of the last 10 years of my life dealing with a Borderline and Narcissist.
Main traits
Very charming and convincing, this is where it all starts, he is such a great conman that he makes you feel lucky to be with him and afraid to be without him.
He lies even when it would be better to tell the truth
He can never be wrong
Stubborn
No remorse for hurting others
A victim of life
i met him while I was still married, he came over to me while I was playing a slot machine and started a converstaion. I really didnt say to much but he left an impact on me. I left that night but ended up searching for him online from the information about his life he had shared. I found him. And oh how I wish I hadnt. My marriage was not going good at the time. In fact my Exhusband and I were seperated. So I contacted Dave and he seemed excited to hear from me. We agreed upon a time and place to meet. I was excited to see him again and to get to know him better. I arrived at our meeting spot but he never showed. Later that evening he called and said he had been involved in a car accident and that is why he didnt show. I had no reasonn to beleive at this time that anyone would lie about this so I was concerned he was ok and he said he was a little banged up but ok. We made another date. This time he did show up and we had a wonderful evening getting to know one another.He was such a fun and exciting person to be around. Everyone seemed to like him and he was the life of the party. He also was very complementrary to me and would constantly tell me how much he liked me and how beautiful he thought I was. FOr the next couple of months we hung out together. We did not get involved sexually as I was still only seperated from my husband.
Friday, April 23, 2010
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